If you are pregnant and considering adoption then you are going to have a lot of options out in front of you. There are plenty of agencies out there, and you not only have to decide which agency to choose, but you will also have to decide what level of contact you want to have with your future child and their new family. It is hard to decide to give up a member of your family because the circumstances are not quite right yet for you to raise a family, and it is difficult to get through your guilt and pain, even though you know what you are doing is best for the baby.
Due to this, you will probably want to make sure that the child is placed with the best family possible. The first step to this is choosing a good adoption agency that you feel has your child’s best intersts at heart. This means an Tulsa Adoption agency that works hard to make sure that their candidates are suitable for your child, and will be able to provide the type of home life that you want your child to be raised in. While you will have no say in how they raise the child you are giving up, you will still want to choose a family that you feel will do a really great job.
The Tulsa Adoption agency will do a full background check on the families that they list as potential adoption families, including an at home check. The families can only be listed if they pass the investigations and are considered elligible to become adoptive parents. The birth family can actually choose which family the baby goes to. In fact, it is entirely up to you and the rest of the birth family how much contact you continue to have about your child. In some cases, the adoptive families send care packages regularly with stories and pictures of the child as they are growing up so you can still learn about them, but whether or not this happens is entirely up to you as part of the birth family. Some families choose not to do this and instead just let their child be happy somewhere that they cannot see to help them deal with the grief of having given up a child for adoption.